' Strength of a woman ' pieces of wada

Today is dec 22nd.
And I have just finished my period for this month.
Yesh..it did come!
Just nice you know the date..
19 dec..
my hubby’s birthday, no less.

Hee!

I was just thinking WHAT IF I got pregnant?
I mean, its kinda overwhelming isn’t it?
to think that I could actually have a baby growing in me!

Am I really prepared for the huge responsibilty?
Am I?

I know I will learn along the way.
And I know no one will ever be totally prepared until the day comes.
Then like that, by hook or by crook,
have to be prepared..
no turning back righttt?

=)

But anyways,
Now not pregnant yet..
So can sit back and relax first..



So Ok..let me touch on another topic.

When we first got married,
Birth control had been on my mind.
But my friends are strongly against the Pill.
Saying i’m still young, there’s side effects when older, etc..

Hubby and me did much research on the methods available.

I almost wanted to take up the injection method, done one time every month.
Which my friends, again, told me to go against it..

Anyways their advice was a firm NO!
for all the birth control products and methods..

their only prevention?
they just monitor their menstrual cycle CLOSELY
and use the withdrawal method. =)

yeah. No kidding.

Its wonderful to hear their advices..and stories. Muahahahaha!
Though at most times, they are so very the LUCAH.
Haha!

Anyways, 2009 is about to be over.
Im so welcoming the new year with arms wide open..

Every year, a fresh beginning.
Fresh new year resolutions and
fresh start for anything we wanna try and discover.

Btw, my new year resolution is still the same.
At least for one of it lah..

Which is to…
Have porcelain face!!


Im like so tired with all the acne and pimples and breakouts etc..

My diet I have to watch too
cos it affects my acne to a certain extent.

My sleep..boy oh boy do I need a lot of sleep.
I always neglected my beauty sleep..

And and, must tell myself,
Do not sleep with make up on..

Sometimes im so lazy u know..

So yeah, now you know la why my breakouts are still so persistent..
Maybe all these while, I didn’t wash my face correctly..


Hee..disgusting wada.

Anyways
Think I shall stop now..


Since it’s the holiday season,
Here’s wishing all a happy happy new year!
Great health and everlasting love..




Ho ho ho!

Dear Diary

The result is NEGATIVE.

Actually I dunno what to feel.
Its like a part of me feels sad
Cos I realy thought I was preggie you know...

"Eh..its negative leh.."
Dr Soh said.


Then there's another part of me
that says you're still young
You're not even 26 yet wada..

And since we are not trying for a baby yet,
Its ok then..

Dr. Soh also agreed that
since its negative,
And I still have not gotten
my period this month,
We assumed its stress at work.

Wah! I so stressed out at work
Till my period is delayed??
I don't like irregularity..
Cos like that I will lose count..

But still, kalau ter"accident"
Pun best kan!
If u know what i mean!
Hehe!

Little Wada or Little Rizal..


Then I was smiling oh so widely when I
reach work today.
My lovely girls and myself
have been emailing each other.
All sorts of ceriter

From korean serials
sampai ke
topic of baby names!

Dunno how it got all linked up seyy.

These lovelies just crack me up
I tell ya!

And the baby names are so cute
And and korang dah plan
Nak jadi god sis, god mother
God nenek pun ader seyy!!

HAhahahaHAAA!!!!
Kekek la korang!!

Hee!

And thank u everyone for leaving comments
In my previous entry..
How sweet. Really...

For now, let me just wait for
my period to come..

Dear Diary

I have not gotten my period for this month yet.
Do u think its delayed cos of stress
or could I actually be pregnant?
I'm not sure.
But but I do feel pregnant tho. Heh!
Maybe I've been dreaming too much tak?

Oh well..just hv to wait then..if not,
buy pregnancy kit to confirm lor.. :)

You know ah..work has been piling up but I'm taking one day at a time..slowly but surely..

Its a difficult time at work..
for many many reasons.

Anyways, this friday will be the naming ceremony for our 2 oil rigs..and now since its commissioning time, everyone is just so busy..btw, the big big bosses are here in singapore too. So everyone is on their feet..tension tension tension.

At times I just sit back and look around. I know I have got to be thankful for this opportunity. this is my rice bowl and I am going to do my job right..
For my love ones, of course.

Diary,
Its really december alredy sey.
17 more days to go.
17!!! 17!!!!! Woooot woooot!
Alhamdulillah. I'm so bersyukur right now.

Soon its gonna be our 1st year of being a married couple.
Time, indeed does fly. I recalled seeing the xmas ornaments being sold at IMM the last time we went ring hunting..
and just a few days ago, those xmas ornaments are being displayed again for sale. That means a year has passed since we kawin!

Thank you Bi.
Untuk segala-galanya.

since Dee is angry that i hvnt post anythin in my blog for quite a while alredy.. heheh!
and that

I have been wanting to post this on my blog for quite sometime alredy.

But because, time always doesn’t permit,

Im actually posting it now during work.

Curik-curik time gitu.

Hur hur hur.

 

 

Please have a read my lovelies…

 

 

 

 

 

Excerpts of the article I took from a yahoo news article:

 

http://sg.news.yahoo.com/afp/20091008/tts-health-us-canada-cancer-972e412.html

 

 

“WASHINGTON (AFP) –

– In a move to quicken detection for women at risk of breast cancer,

Canadian researchers said they had developed a hormone testing technique

that could eventually be used in a handheld device.

While the results are several years away from usage,

the new "lab-on-a-chip" technique developed at the University of Toronto

can analyze "tiny samples of blood and breast tissue

to identify women at risk of breast cancer

much more quickly than ever before,"

researchers said.”

 

 

 

Alhamdulillah.

May they invent the device soonest.

If you know me, you will understand why I am so passionate

about Breast Cancer Awareness.

 

 

Ladies,

I plead to you to have your check-up soon.

Do your breast self-examination monthly.

Any lumps or unusual feeling,

Please book an appointment to see the doctor

Or straight go for a mammogram.

 

Yeah, I know..

they recommend the mammogram

If you are 40years and above.

Yada yada yada…

 

But if you are like myself,

Who’s only 25 years old!

Who discovered lumps and cysts in both my breasts,

You will then know the importance of taking extra caution

and increasing awareness of breast cancer and early detection.

Actually I did blog about my biopsy in one of my entries.

The experience I went through with my boyfriend(who’s my hubby now)

Was indeed an eye-opener.

And I am so grateful,

That through those darkest days,

My love ones were there to give me the support

Which I needed ever so badly.

 

 

 

I went through it all..

Mammogram..

Having cysts removed from both my breasts

Trucut Biopsy

Having my lump tissues sent to the lab for tests

and

Fine Needle Aspiration.

Yeah..

So all these sound alien to you?

 

 

Well, don’t delay any longer yeah.

do read up on breast issues.

As weird as it sounds,

Get to know your breasts really well.

Go do a check-up if you see any abnormal changes.

 

Because after all,

you just never know.

 

 Early detection and self-awareness
can REALLY save your life.




xoxo,
wada.

 

 

 

Wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!

 

So long I haven’t blog lehh!

 

Hang on with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

Ok..let me just update a few important events..EXCITED banget!

 

 

Sunday 11/10/09 – NYP Babes Beraya ’09!!! 

(I know!!! Nice number right?!!!! Hee!!)

We had fun..ingat nak setep kakak2 lah..but apparently, we are still the same ol’ gila people!! Sukerrrr!

And our baju raya all soooo nice lah! So proud that we are still donning the traditional clothes for Hari Raya..

And we clocked like what?? 12hours of house visiting seeeyyyyyyy!!!

NYP babes beraya have been goin on yearly since our poly days seyy..that would be..hmmm..since year2002 or is it 2003?

Hee..lama jugak tu..considering we have not known each other so well until poly time..

Argh! Miss my poly days!! Miss them! Cant wait for end November..to straits kitchen it is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Monday 12/10/09 – I on leave!

Woohoo! And a year ago, umi & abah came over Mak’s house to merisik..hee..malu lah i..

Ingat lagi time tu umi asked me and rizal to like hmmm….go out..so we stayed at the staircase area till quite sometime seyy..

So weird the feeling…like many2 butterflies..beetles..cockroach..lizards..all these in my stomach! Hehhee..

Ok..was so excited and nervous lah! Nak2 time kena panggil by my sis to come back to Mak’s house after the parents finish with their discussion..hee! malu malu malu!!

 

 

Tuesday 13/10/09 – how can I forget this date…its kikin’s birthday!

My deary ol’ fren..i knew her since kindergarten!!!!!

Such wonderful memories with her..i remember how we so love Barbie dolls..and lay them all on Mak Mok’s trolley..and play house..and everything..made bracelets and necklaces…with beads..and selling them in plastic pouch and all….missed my Asryna and Mimi too…one day..we ALL shall meet up! Yes we will!!! =P

 

 

Wednesday 14/10/09 – FIDA’S birthday!!!

Sorry my dear babe for waking you up soo early in the morning! Hope u enjoy the birthday song I sang! Hee! Kesian fida…dgn dia punye groggy voice, had to answer my call…heheehehe! Hope u enjoy giler your birthday ok! Mana lah tau, next year, dah ada yg punye ke…hee..nak aku match make kan tak? My mom in law also like to match make people..i alredy got someone in mind alredy..very nice chap…hee..I love you babe! See u sooooon..missed you!!!!!!!!!

 

Thursday 15/10/09 – its my Umi’s birthday!!!

Wah! 3 birthday girls in just one week!! Heheeheh!! Happy birthday Umi! Sayaaaaangggg Umi… jumpa this Saturday k…hmmmm..like that must think of where to bring her go makan…but the last time I talked to her, she say don’t need to celebrate lah..maybe she pai seh want to say yes tak? Heehee…lets see..how abt a nice lunch at carousel? Or maybe go kain shopping at Arab Street??? Hmmmmm…or a quick getaway to Batam???????

 

 

Friday 16/10/09 – ooohhh..today is the Samsung delivery for the Home Theatre System

we bought for Rohani…it’s a standard practice that when one of our team is having open house/ getting married, we’ll most probably buy an electronic item..hee! the range is nice..Samsung mah..of cos la nice right…

 

Saturday 17/10/09 – meeting the little one! Miss her loads!!!!!!!!!!!

and it’s a 17 today!!! my favourite number!!!!!! Double woohoo!! Need to take a very nice picture of her for the personalized birthday cake..her birthday is coming...heee…..princess theme….heee…

And also, if its confirm, most prob we’ll go have a birthday lunch for Umi today! Yay!!

And its Deepavali!! Happy Diwali to all my Hindu frens! Don’t forget about tomorrow!!! See you all then!!

 

 

Sunday 18/10/09 – Its OPEN HOUSE day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This will be the last open house for our home this Hari Raya..having many desserts to make in mind..tapi dunno terbuat ke tak…..hehehe…so you all go up to rohani’s house..makan sampai super kenyang, lepas tu take the lift to tingkat 8 k…heheehe..kalau tak nak take the lift, turun tangga exercise la sikit! Biler nampak je ada 2 cinema chair, tuh makna nye dah sampai la kat I nye rumah…..tuh trademark tingkat 8…. =P

 

 

 

 

PHEW!!!

 


yesh..nothing beats jalan raya with the NYP babes..
i dunno..

its has somewhat become like a nostalgia..
something that will bring back ol' memories..
like no matter how far we have spread our wings,
we will still have these yearly meetups..
to update each other what we hv done thus far..

putting the gossips aside..
and that the cliques were history..
we were somewhat..one...yeah..somehow or rather..

maybe its the magic of Hari Raya..

Little cutie pie said nonchalantly,

 

“my mummy said choose one auntie only..”

 

 

 

Instantly

I knew what she meant.

 

 

 

 

 

my heart just sanked.

It hurts so so bad.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And I was embarrassed too..

 

 

 

 

 

 

i had to tell myself the same thing..

over and over again..

 

because this is not the first time

she says these phrases to me..

 

 

 

 

 

in my heart,I was telling myself,

“Come on wada..no tears..no tears..”

 

 

 

 

I had to hold back from crying..

Forced myself to smile..

 

 

 

Wada sedih sangat..tapi takde siapa yang tau..

Sebak hati ni..

 

 

 

 

How I really wished someone really understood what I was going through.

 

 

 

 

 

 

She is so innocent, you know..

Why does she have to be brainwashed like that?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But you know something?

Her actions will always show otherwise.

And that matters the most…

 

 

 

 

 

 

She didn’t understand what she was told to say..

Because after telling me that phrase,

she took my hand..and kissed it..

even asked me to carry her.

Like she always do..

She played with me like normal…

We were like normal.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Such innocence I see in her.

I love her.

And I will take care of her..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Trust auntie ok?

Auntie promise you this.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I knew I had to be strong.

At least infront of everyone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But when I got into the car,

like a place of solace..

I felt hot tears just streaming down my cheeks..

Uncontrollably..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Ya Allah, berikanlah ku ketabahan, kesabaran..

 untuk menghadapi liku-liku kehidupan ini..”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I read an article from this web site:

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/entertainment/view/1008553/1/.html

 

It features my favourite radio DJs and their Operation Smile.

 

 

“This Saturday, the Class 95FM's Morning Express crew –

Mark van Cuylenberg (aka the Flying "FD" Dutchman),

Vernetta Lopez and

Glenn Ong

will don their walking shoes and make a trek from

Jurong Point in the west to Parkway Parade in the east.

 

The reason?

To raise funds for Operation Smile Singapore,

the local arm of the charity organisation

that helps families of undeveloped countries

seek corrective surgery for their children who are born with

cleft lips, cleft palates and other facial deformities.

And also to honour the families that

have to walk miles just to get this done.

 

 

 

 

 

 

To donate, call 1900 1129505 (for S$5 donations) or 1900 1129520 (S$20),

or drop your loose change at donation tins found in

all Robinsons, Marks and Spencer, John Little and Coast and Embre stores.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When we get so caught up in our own little world,

we forgot that there are millions others who are still suffering.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As time goes by,

I am more certain, reassured..

how she has been such a fake towards me.

Maybe she is just using me

for her own benefit.

There’s too..too many

reasons to back that up.

 

But you know what,

I have learnt my lesson..

The hard way..yes..

Im angry with myself

for being

so blinded all these while.

i know..

im angry with myself

for being so weak..

yet again..

 

Even sadder is the fact

that I cannot do anything now.

I am not able to confront her

cos of one major reason..

Not now anyways..

 

Life still goes on as per normal..

I have never told this to anyone before

accept to Bi..

but now im slowly letting it out

to those friends who really CARE,

whom, i realised now
are the ones i really treasure.

And they made me feel better

Because they have been through

this too..

maybe not the same..

but similar situations before.

 

 

Maybe one day

I should really let it all out

To the one person who made me suffer like this.

But really, not now.
ish.

Definitely not now.

 

 

 

She has hurt me in so many ways.

She always took credit when its not hers.

Its so sedih..argh.

 

i am so crushed now.

Yes, im teary.

Yes, I feel like rushing to the toilet
and cry my heart out.

But I cant,

im at work now.

 

 

Of cos she didn’t realize to what extend

She has hurt me.

Of course she didn’t know it

If not, she would have changed her ways. Nah..very doubtful too..

I take back that thought of her

changing for the better.

I don’t think she will change.

She is older than me.

So she should be wiser right?

 

 

 

you know what?


 

Im just thankful for realizing now

Just who my true friends are..

They are just a handful

But they are my precious ones..

 

 

You know,

 

I’ve had my fair share of knowing people

who are so full of pretense,

 

who are soooooo fake,

 

even those who pretend to be a good person.

 

Those who tell the whole world

they have

‘been there, done that’..

 

People who go around saying

they have everythin

 

or that they even have more than

what others can afford..

 

People who

‘talk only,

no action’..

 

 

 

Eh, macam2 lagi lah..

 

 

 

 

But this person,

 

My oh my..

 

She is

by far

the worst.

 

And no,

I am NOT exaggerating.

Cos I am not the only victim here.

Argh.

 

 

 

You win lah girl.

Such a rotten apple.

 

 

 

 

A round of applause for being a hypocrite.

Yes, hypocrite.

 

I have never used that word on anyone.

NEVER.

 

You are the first in my book.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i chanced upon a website that has this beautiful message..
i feel so blessed for all the love i have and
for not losing myself in this mad world.

What I'm Thankful For

The mess to clean up after a party because it means I have been surrounded by friends.

The taxes I pay because it means that I'm employed.

The clothes that fit a little too snug because it means I have enough to eat.

My shadow who watches me work because it means I am out in the sunshine.

The spot I find at the far end of the parking lot because it means I am capable of walking.

All the complaining I hear about our government because it means we have freedom of speech.

That lady behind me in church who sings off key because it means that I can hear.

The piles of laundry and ironing because it means my loved ones are nearby.

The lawn that needs mowing, windows that need cleaning, and gutters that need fixing because it means I have a home.

My huge heating bill because it means that I am warm.

Weariness and aching muscles at the end of the day because it means that I have been productive.

The alarm that goes off in the early morning hours because it means that I am alive.

I am thankful for you because it means that I am loved.

beautiful message, aint it so?

and Bi, thank you for being beside me.
my coach, my jogging buddy..






=)

 

Halooo kengkawan semua!!!

Woohoo hoo!!!

 

 

1stly wada ingin mengucapkan
Salam Eid Mubarak

to all my Muslim brothers and sisters.

 

For those whom ive personally sent an sms to,
thank you for the reply yeah.

 

 

 

I am very happy this Hari Raya

Cos it’s the 1^st ever hari raya as a wife..

*blushing hor*

Hurhurhur..

 

I know..hurhurhur..

 

 

 

So far, Alhamdulillah..

Even tho in the early morning of Hari Raya

Kiter dah gaduh..hehe.

Miscommunication ler…

 

But nonetheless, dah mintak maaf pun..

Sedih.

 

 

And the rest of the 1^st day and also the 2^nd day of Hari Raya

Indeed both of us hv totally enjoyed ourselves..

Really.

 

 

 

since we are married,

I hv to visit Bi’s family and his relatives too right..

So for this raya,

Both of us agreed that after visiting Umi and abah and my kakak’s family,

we’ll then start with my side.

 

Then the 2^nd day its visiting his side pulak..

 

 

Mak oi..

both of us really got humongous number of relatives..

I am so not kidding..

Even the word “humongous” is an understatement la..

 

 

Not only relatives,

We hv extended relatives too..

Just imagine, both my mom and dad are anak angkat to another set of family..

So there’s another 2 set of  family tree to ponder about too..

But good la..we are all close knit…tho not with all of them,

At least we still know who our relatives are..

Also,

my Umi alone hv 12 siblings..hehe..

and I am still learning who’s who..

 

 

Actually I dunno just how I am gonna divide our days to go visiting and such

Cos our schedule is really tight too..

 

 

Anyways

That’s beside the point lah ah..

Kalau nak ziarah-menziarahi, anytime pun boleh..

Nak dengan tak nak je..

kan kan kan??

 

 

Everytime hari raya, I also happy cos

Its really nice to see so many Muslim families on the road

all so proud wearing their new baju raya..

nak nak yg pakai sedondon..

So nice lah..

As long as wear traditional clothes, its alredy so touching tau..

Kalau tak sekarang, bila lagi kan nak pakai baju kurung ni sumer..betol tak?

 

 

The feeling is just priceless..

Really..

 

 

 

 

Tak sabar nak meet up with my NYP babes..

And also I was planning for a perjumpaan with my primary schoolmates..

 

 

 

You think its possible?

 

 

 

 

Saper kat sini dari Pandan Primary School angkat tangan!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

if its Matta Band craze last year during Hari Raya, season,

then I think Wali Band is the hit this time round.

You agree with me don’t you?

 

 

CARI JODOH

~Wali Band

 

Apa salahku apa salah ibuku
Hidupku dirundung pilu
Tak ada yang mau dan menginginkan aku
Tuk jadi pengobat pilu
Tuk jadi penawar rindu
Tuk jadi kekasih hatiku

 

Timur ke barat selatan ke utara
Tak juga aku berjumpa
Dari musim duren hingga musim rambutan
Tak kunjung aku dapatkan
Tak jua aku temukan
Oh tuhan inikah cobaan

 

Ibu-ibu bapak-bapak
Siapa yang punya anak
Bilang aku aku yang tengah malu
Sama teman-temanku
Karna cuma diriku yang tak laku-laku

 

Pengumuman-pengumuman
Siapa yang mau bantu
Tolong aku kasihani aku
Tolong carikan diriku kekasih hatiku
Siapa yang mau

 

Ibu bapak punya anak
Bilang-bilang aku aku yang tengah malu
Sama teman-temanku
Karna cuma diriku yang tak laku-laku..

 

 

 

 

 

This song is so funny actually. Hee.

 

 

All-time evergreen songs..

Tak lekang dek panas, tak lapok dek hujan.

 

 

Eh eh..syiok nyer dengar lagu raya..

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Ku Pohon Restu Ayah Bonda
~ Al Jawaher

 

Duhai bonda duhai ayahanda
Dengarlah rayuan anakanda
Yang jauh di mata

Tanpa ku sedari airmata ku mengalir
Terdengar ayat suci seruan takbir
Betapa daku gembira dekat di samping keluarga
Di pagi mulia hari raya


Kan ku sujud di kakimu bila kita bertemu
Kan ku cium tangan mu ku pohon restu
Oh maafkan daku kesalahan diri ku

Walau jauh di mata namun kau tak dapat ku lupa
Doa ku sepanjang masa agar kau bahagia
Ku pohon restu dari mu oh ayah dan ibu
Agar tercapai cita ku membela nasib mu


Kesalahan diri ku...

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Biler dengar lagu Awie&Ziana ni,

Ader imagine sikit duet dengan you lah Bi..

Huahuahuahuahua!!!

Geli hati!

 

 

Halaman Asmara
~ Awie & Ziana Zain

 

Setahun aku lalui
Detik lama kan kembali
Pelita ku nyalakan
Di halaman asmara ini

Sering kali ku renungi
Kenangan mencuit hati
Sedar tak sedar detik itu kembali
Detik tahun lagi

Cinta di bawah cahaya
Dakapan seribu warna
Menerangi indah halaman asmara
Kita berdua


Kau melafazkan kerinduan
Ku sambut keriangan
Dan terungkaplah
Impian di hari mulia

Tercurah kasih dan sayang
Menyambut Syawal menjelma
Tapi daku gembira bertemu saudara
Di samping kasih yang ku cinta

Kau melafazkan kerinduan
Ku sambut keriangan
Dan terungkaplah
Impian
Kau melafazkan kerinduan
Ku sambut keriangan
Dan terungkaplah
Impian

Kau melafazkan kerinduan
Ku sambut keriangan
Dan ( terungkaplah )
Impian ( impian )
Hari mulia

Kau melafazkan kerinduan
Ku sambut keriangan
Dan terungkaplah
Impian

 

 

 

 

Suasana Hari Raya
~ Sharifah Aini

Hai selamat hari raya
Kami semua ucapkan
Menikmati hidangan
Yang kami sediakan

Sila jamu selera
Dengan bermacam hidangan
Pilih yang mana suka
Sila janganlah segan


Rasalah ketupat ini
Dengan rendangnya sekali
Sudilah rasa kuihku
Pilihlah yang mana satu


Hai... di hari begini
Kita menjamu selera
Kita bermaaf-maafan
Di suasana hari raya

 

 

 

 

Tup tup tup..

Lagi 5 hari je tinggal..

Happy ader..sedih pun ader..

 

 

 

 

Harap apa yang kita lakukan akan diberkati

Oleh Yang Maha Esa.

Insya-Allah.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I just realized I made a mistake.

But since I have alredy sent my boss the e-mail.

I then proceed to recall the message..

 

 

 

Low and behold..

 

The message states..

 

 

 

 "You attempted to recall this message on
09 September 2009 09:19."

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don’t you geddit alredy?

 

Okok…

 

 

 

Its 09-09-09 sent at 09:19..

There’s a number nine in all of it!

 

 

 

 

 

*oh no wada!! Not again!!!*

 

Oh come on! Stop with the eyes rolling people!

 

 

 

 

Huahhuahuahuahuahuahuahuahuahuahua!

 

 

 

 

 

So ok

On a serious note altogether,
yeah righttt..like so serious huh.

Here is something I read in Yahoo! just now..

 

 

 

 

the sum of the two-digits resulting from nine
multiplied by any other single-digit number will equal nine.
So 9x3=27, and 2+7=9.

Multiply nine by any two, three or four-digit number
and the sums of those will also break down to nine.
For example: 9x62 = 558; 5+5+8=18; 1+8=9.

 

Sept. 9 also happens to be the 252nd day of the year (2 + 5 +2)...


and there's many more facts about 09-09-09 too!
sukerrrrrr!


heeheeee...
i know..
i should be a numerologist sey..

since im a number freako..




and yes darini deary...
how can i not blog about today right..





huahuahuahuahuahua! <--- that's my new laughter btw!







note to self - must do something nice and memorable for today.

helllooooo my lovelies.
i just want to share with you a cute story which
tini had posted in her blog too.
my fren tini ni is gonna tie the knot next year..
jadi member skarang tgh stress agaknye..
relax ok babe..hope the planning is going well yeah.
anyways this story is pretty pedas
but there is some truth in it.
it portrays how materialistic our generation truly is.
pandai writer ni tulis.
very engaging! =D



so ok, this is what he/she wrote:


"Aku ni actually ghairah pat members² aku start plan kawin.
Bukan jealous cuma tumpang gembira jer. Heehee.
So aderla satu hari tu, members aku satu ni tepon nak jemput aku ke majlis dia...
Aku pon tanya ler.. 'Amacam geng, semua dah siap?'Dia cakap 'Parah beb, gua kayap siak ni bulan... 20 ribu dah abis siol..'HAAA?!? 20 RIBU?!?! Mak oi..

Hidop pat singapore nie memang ler mahal and kekadang tu pasangan tak jadi kahwin pasal duit tak cukop ataupon duit yang ade tu diorang tak bleh agree nak digunakan untuk apa. Maknernyer, diorang plan nak buat majlis kan, abih tak boleh agree with each other, so they bergaduh & bertekak & salahkan mak bapak each other & end up, tak jadi kahwin.....
Al kisahhh...

Tapi kan, aku heran tau... pasangan sekarang lebih stress memikirkan majlis ini daripader memikirkan maser depan dan hala tujuan hidup bersamer selepas nikah. Heran eh?? Diorang ingat lepas kawin life stops there ke??

Hmm.. ok, that's a different story..

So getting back pasal duit nie kan, tak ikut market price nanti orang kata kedekut lah, sengkek lah, tak mampu jangan ada hati nak kahwin lah, akak kau peh laki la, mak ensem bapak jambu la, hai... macam-macam story lagi.
Biasanyakan, yang letak harga ialah mak sebelah pompan.
Bapak confirm mesti orait.. ikutkan aje.
Kadang2 ada jugak pompan sendiri yang letak harga, lepas tu pakat dengan mak, revenue sharing 50/50

Hurhurhur basketball btoll...

Mengikut survey kedai kopi pat Jurong West St 42,
sekarang hantaran paling minimum ialah SGD$7000..
Maximum sampai $25,000 pon ade.

Kalau kedai kopi Marsiling lak SGD$5000 + rokok kretek 30carton. Dasyat beb..
Dah lah Singapore ni mahal giler..
Macam mane couple tak bertekak..
Nak tahu apasal mahal?

Mengikut Survey Kedai Gunting Teban Gardens,
antara punca hantaran sekarang makin mahal;
1. Anak pompan sorang
2. Anak pompan sekolah tinggi sampai tingkat 20
3. Anak pompan paling jambu dalam family
4. Anak pompan kerja lawyer/doctor/CEO
5. Anak pompan biasa pakai barang branded
6. Anak pompan yang pandai masak, kemas rumah, layan suami sampai suami takmo gi kerja
7. Kakak belum kahwin; jadi kena sponsor kakak kawin jugak.. nanti lemau..
8. Anak pompan tu banyak yang melamar, semuanya hensembryl cream + kaya

Mengikut survey Kedai Basikal Chai Chee,
selalunya jawapan yang diberi oleh pihak lelaki kalau hantaran melampau sangat ialah;
1. Bapak Rock - 'Lu giler ka pa beb?'
2. Bapak Mithali -?'Astarghfirullah..'
3. Bapak Bintang TV - 'TTIIDDDAAAAKKKKKK!!!!!!'
4. Bapak Gangster/Tailong - 'Masih 'virgin' ke tak ni lu peh girl, ada diamond ka pa..'
5. Bapak Bisnesman - 'We're sorry but the returns of our investment is definitely less than 20%...'
6.. Bapak Lembik - 'mahal la.. macam mane nie daling?' sambil membisik pat Isterinya...
7. Bapak Garang - 'APAAAA?!?! AAPPAAAAAA??!! CUBA KAU CAKAP LAGI SEKALI!!!??'
8. Bapak Gerek - 'HAHAHA! Lupakan sudah... Takpe Roy, nanti bapak recommend yang lebih power dari Ashwarya Rai eh?'

Mengikut survey Warung Nasi Lemak Bussorah Street,
kata²dari sebelah pompan yang lelaki ingin sangat nak dengar ialah;
1. 'Ikut suka hatilah.. Berapa yang lelaki kasi; kita ambik je. Makcik ngan pakcik kau nie tak cerewet.'
2. 'Takpelah. Kalau tak boleh adakan sekarang; kahwin dulu. Lepas tu bayar pelan-pelan cara instalment.'
3.. 'Jangan bimbang. Korang cuma adakan hantaran je. Duit majlis semua kita sponsor.'
4. 'Pasal makcik kau ngan pakcik kau nie suka sangat kat kau, kita ikhlas...'
5. 'Berapa korang nak kasi, kasilah. Nak ambik free pun takpe. Anak pompan kita ramai lagi.
Ada kawan, rekemen arh skali'

Mengikut survey Mat Despatch Gathering @ Waterloo St,
kalaukena pulak family lelaki yang loaded makan tak abis punya; jawapannya;
1. 'Okay setuju. Kita up lagi $10,000. Ditanggung beresss.'
2. 'Ehh sikit nah! Camni tak nak lah. Malu la kawin hantaran $10,000. Kami OKB tau!'
3.. 'Brape? Gitu je?'
4. 'Dahling, amikkan chek book abang tu.. '
5. 'Sebagai hadiah upacara masuk minang ni; kita ada siapkan kereta 5 bijik. Tu anak bujang kita tengah parking semua kat bawah tu.'
6. 'Sebagai hadiah upacara masuk minang ni; kita adasiapkan kereta 5 bijik, 3 bijik TV LCD 50 inci, 2 tiket penerbangan ke...'

Haa... tu lah beberapa karenah orang melayu kita ni.
Hati dah suka punya pasal, semua boleh aje.
Cukup time tak larat nak naik pelamin pasal kerja tiga empat macam untuk kumpul duit.
Ada pulak tu... yg terpaksa amik personal loan la, 0% installment Bank la, atau pakai credit card. Honeymoon pon utang..
Lepas kawin, dah balik dari honeymoon, kepala teros sewel, pikir nak bayar hutang and at the end of it, tak tercapai lah maksud perkahwinan yg sepatutnya semakin memudahkan kehidupan.. dah terbalik.. jadi semakin susah.

So amacam geng, dah ready nak kawin?
Kalau yg dah kawin tu, ape pulak masalah dorang.. "






hee..

i just feel
no matter how simple a wedding is,
akan terkopak jugak duit kiter kan.
but hopefully those who are getting married,
do realise the importance of working around their budget.

biar lah apa orang nak cakap.
yang kawin pun kiter
bukan dorang.

yang penting sekali
asalkan mampu.


yang lagi paaaling penting sekali
asalkan kiter HAPPY!




muka mesti ada senyuuummmm~














ok lah,
Have a great saturday everyone!  =P

I SUPER DUPER HAPPY TODAY LAH!!!!!!!!!

Okok..maybe since last night lah.

 

 

 

You see..

Me and my signature scent

We go waaaay back..hehe.

since yr2002.

 

But unfortunately last year

it was discontinued

in the Singapore market

 

I searched many places

Like DFS, Bali airport, Batam=D, Mustafa centre,

perfume shops and of course shopping centres

All with the same answer.

BUMMER!

 

 

 

And after so long..

After trying to replace it with other perfumes

 

I finally..

yes yes yes!!!

 

 

 

 

I finally have it now!

Big bottle some more!

Omg!

 

 

Thank you thank you thank you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Oh what a lovely lovely day it is.

And Bi, you know how I feel right. =D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nak citer sikit ok.

 

 

 

I was letting my legs go up to make a ‘V’.

Just stretching here and there.

 

When Bi followed suit.

But he didn’t just do a ‘V’ with his legs.

He let out his famous atomic bomb too!

 

 

Ya ampun!

Busok nyerrrr kentoooot you!!

 

 

 

I gave chase

Till terlanggar bucu of our dining table.

OUCH! OUCH!!!!

 

 

Nvm.

Still continue chasing you know.

 

 

And now I see the blue black at my knee.

Padan dgn muka i.

 

 

 

 

 

=P

 

 

 

 

 

 

A little chapter from our life’s journey..

 

 

 

 

 

I remembered where we were that night.

Sitting on the cold stone bench at east coast park..

Sipping the ice blended frappe from coffee bean..

 

We were not the only ones there..

Behind us there were still kids running around..

 

That night..

That night felt so alive..

So breezy..yet such a calming effect altogether..

 

We were just talking the night away.

And then he let me listen to the new song

It was still new that time

And I hv never heard of that song even..

Though the song is passé now,

It is still fresh in my mind till today..

Still give me the same goosebumps..

Still give me the same emotions I was going through.

 

 

He told me when he listened to that song

He was all teary-eyed.

Wow..

if a song managed to move him that much

That song must be that good huh.

 

 

And then I let myself listen to it,

And the rest was history.

 

 

 

“Ku mencintaimu, lebih dari apapun
Meskipun tiada satu orang pun yang tahu
Ku mencintaimu, sedalam-dalam hatiku
Meskipun engkau hanya kekasih gelapku...”

 

 

the lyrics and the sadness the song evoke

it was too powerful back then.

 

 

 

“Ku tahu ku takkan selalu ada untukmu
Disaat engkau merindukan diriku”

 

 

 

But I only really let go my tears when I was at home

Watching the music video of the song..

 

Because the song had touched the part of me

where I can really connect.

And I believe he experienced the same thing too.

 

You know how sometimes you listen to a song

And felt like as if that song was actually made for you?

 

 

Yeah..that was how deep an impact it was.

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Yakinlah bahwa engkau adalah cintaku
Yang ku cari selama ini dalam hidupku
Dan hanya padamu ku berikan sisa cintaku
Yang panjang dalam hidupku...”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Against all odds.

No matter what they say,

We stand up for each other, always.

 

 

 

 

And that’s all that matters.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A fruitful weekend for me definitely.

Had our iftar at home

For the 1^st time with our family as a married couple katakan..

What a lovely lovely sunday..

 

Though some could not make it..

Next time perhaps yeah..

 

 

Its true when they say..

If your food is cooked with love,

It will always turn our right..

 

 

So now you maybe wondering

Why everything I do

Have to do with first times huh?

Apa boleh buat kan....

Now still in honeymoon period mah..

or so they say lah..

so I like to have my memories more memorable

by highlighting the fact that

some events are a first

since being married..hur hur hur.

so bear with me okay?

 

Thank you very much.

 

 

Back tracked abit to Saturday..

29 august 2009.

My parents-in-law’s anniversary..

38 years of being married..

 

That’s a very long time.

 

Insya-Allah kalau diizinkan

dengan berkat dari Illahi

We will make it through that long too.

 

You and me

Hand in hand baby.

 

 

Like they say,

Hidup rumahtangga ni memang banyak dugaan nye.

So we have to be tabah dengan segala rintangan yang ada.

 

 

 

well in the meantime,

I shall enjoy all the things I have right now..

Cos I believe

The most important is that,

There is NO POINT having all the luxuries in life

If you don’t know how to cherish them..

If you are NEVER thankful..

 

 

 

So to all my lovelies,

Cherish all the little things in life which makes you happy.

Cos you never know what you got,

Until it’s gone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Take care!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I was havin a good chat with my babe Darini..

 

 

 

 

 

And she shared with me the quote which her mom told her.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Kalau makan kat rumah tak cukup,

 

 

 

Mesti keluar carik makan..”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You need to read in between the lines.

 

its deeper than you think.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yesterday was the last day for my colleague.

Despite the fact that our projects still go on as per normal

And that they have found a new inspector to take over his position,

I still think its abit unfair to him.

It’s a really sad thing that he has to go.

 

I feel so sorry for him.

At that age, he should be retiring

Happily traveling to different countries

Vacationing..

Instead of climbing up the gangway to get onboard the vessel everyday..

 

Actually

It is not because he wont be here in our office

That I feel so sad about.

But because he has to face his family, that’s why.

What I have gathered is that his family has not been supportive.

 

What is there to life if your love ones are not able to understand you?

You tell me.

 

It pains me to see him get teary and flushed yesterday.

Having to say that goodbye speech and

having to say goodbye to each of us personally too.

Because I know he has been tryin to fight his tears as well.

He cannot show them, he is a man after all..

 

When we said our last goodbye,

I choked.

I cant say much cos I know my eyes were starting to feel hot.

 

Such an old man,

With a kind heart.

Eventhough he tried to show people (but failed) that

He has such a tough exterior.

Haha! That one is funny.

Cos we all know,

No one is afraid of him.

He so grandfatherly if you know what I mean

Walking ever so slowly

Like staggering

And I remembered the countless of times

We talked about his lack of computer literacy

Heehee..thats so funny too!

 

 

I hope he will retire instead of finding another job.

 

 

But at the end of the day

I hope his family truly understands.

 

 

 

We are all gonna miss him.

His smile especially.

Be it when he was sad, happy, complaining,

Or when he was explaining on his famous theory of

“I heard from…”

“they told me..”

“im not sure how true but I think…”

“actually I believe they are…”

 

He will never fail to smile.

 

 

 

Thank you.

Still sad to see you go.